Let's talk about blame. If we blame another for our discomfort, our perceived situation in life or other, we are merely prolonging our pain and suffering by not understanding the blame we are projecting is but a manifestation of not looking at our own stuff. Any outside causes of our emotional pain are actually reflections of our own inner turmoil. Blame is simply a label and projection of that turmoil onto another so we don't have to get real with ourselves. We may blame genetics or the people around us for what we perceive to be a life out of order. Bu[...]